Kushner: Childhood/If Only...

      • Thursday, December 17, 2015
      • 11:00am  1:30pm

      Poets are invited to perform two poems.  A poet will have 3 minutes maximum to perform both poems. 

      The format and topics for the poems are:

      1. One Free Verse poem about the topic “If only…”

      2.  One Catena Rondo about childhood. What was it like to be a Jewish child? You can revisit memories of early childhood or discuss later childhood and early adolescent years.

      Winners will be chosen in the categories of “Best Poet,” “Best Poet Honorable Mention,” “Best Free Verse Poem,” “Best Catena Rondo Poem” and “Best Presenter.”

      Winners: 

      1. Odelia Fried, SAR, Best Poet

      Sometimes Explaining Feminism to Orthodox Jews Feels Like Talking to a Brick Wall

      how do I explain feminism to orthodox jews?

      to a community with traditions codified

      where being a woman sometimes feels like being unqualified

      how do I explain feminism to orthodox jews?


      to a community with traditions codified

      I am searching in a framework made for men

      where I am not a member, I am a visitor who mumbles amen

      to a community with traditions as codified


      I am searching in a framework made for men

      where rabbis said that learning Torah would turn me into a harlot

      well, might as well slap on an A and paint it scarlet

      I am searching in a framework made for men


      how do I explain feminism to orthodox jews?

      to a community with traditions codified

      where my contributions are cast aside

      how do I explain feminism to orthodox jews?


      untranslatable


      i don’t know how to write something raw enough;

      to contain my feelings into neat letters


      (when i can barely contain them in the hollow of my throat,

      the swell of my collarbone, the arch and dip of my face)


      is blasphemous


      tiny letters form tides against the backs of my teeth,

      not strong enough to make a tidal wave,

      they stick together for a second and then crumble

      unable to unite properly


      how can any language explain  

      this solar system of being,

      gravitating towards an almost-painfully bright sun

      that soupy knot of adolescence that came into our life like a drizzle and is now a permanent storm  


      the languages I know

      in the corners of my mind, words sticking to bones

      like benevolent splinters, tugging at my vocal cords,

      telling them to just spit it out, say what you want


      I create translations faster than I can spit out the right words

      In the right language, finding which expressions translate

      And how to not misstep and misspeak


      Like that one time when instead of signing

      (sign: nice to meet you)

      I signed

      (sign: nice to sleep with you)


      and I am floored--I know so many words from so many

      places, so many passive participles and idaafas, so many shemot poal,

      and yet i can’t say what i want to, nothing

      comes out correct


      how can any language say “i love you”

      properly?


      i love you

      ani ohevet otcha

      aHabak

      (sign i love you)


      nothing is enough, so i mix them,

      ani love you

      ana ohevet you

      i oHib otach


      if only i was able to express myself in a language of my own,


      my fluent english and hebrew and rudimentary arabic,

      the bits of german and yiddish and hungarian that remain

      buried in my family’s history

      stitched together with the cadence of fluttering fingers


      (sim-comm) I L O V E Y O U


      it is in these moments,

      when my languages blur together

      and all i can spit out is a unholy mess of translations and idioms, expressions, and sayings,

      when all the dictionaries I know and remember

      come spiraling out of me in a tangle of

      “i love yous”


      this is when i come alive

      with the untranslatable


      2. Joey Yudelson, SAR, Best Poet Runner-Up

      Catena Rondo

      I grew up with a confused theology,
      Reading tomes by Vonnegut on friday night,
      Dissecting his meaning by candlelight.
      I grew up with a confused theology,

      Reading tomes by Vonnegut on Friday night,
      Because people feel more real to me then gods.
      People who were, with assenting nods
      Reading tomes by Vonnegut on Friday night.

      Because people feel more real to me than gods
      They hold my ecstatic fascination
      But when I pray, I think I pray sedition
      Because people feel more real to me than gods.

      They hold my ecstatic fascination
      Because of their endless hope and confusion
      And their race to find in all things a solution
      They hold my ecstatic fascination.

      Because of their endless hope and confusion,
      I grew up with a confused theology.
      A make-your-own epistemology.
      Because of their endless hope and confusion,

      I grew up with a confused theology,
      Reading tomes by Vonnegut on friday night,
      Dissecting his meaning by candlelight.
      I grew up with a confused theology.

       

      Free Verse

      I must admit,
      I'm sometimes disheartened
      When I'm starting
      To look around
      And too much of what I see
      Are fortresses being built
      And people left unfilled.
      Bees in honeycomb-pattern houses,
      With productive walls around
      The cells they've founded.
      Whether they be constructed from
      Insecurities,
      Emotional immaturities,
      Nervous inability,
      Or heightened sense of responsibility.
      So each man becomes an island
      While I'm stuck inland.
      And teasing some love out of life
      Is like squeezing a lemon
      And expecting honey,
      The kind that comes from hives
      And their protective productivity:
      A hexagonal grid
      Sectioning relationships.
      Maybe the cure is a bacchanal,
      A chance to get a little bit of love for all
      Involved.
      To tear down our faceless
      Honeycomb walls.
      Now this may be a little hypocritical
      I don't know if I've loved like I should,
      Like I could,
      Like I would
      If I only wasn't afraid
      To look like a fool
      And lounge in my small, still pool.
      Secure in knowing that before long
      The rain'll start to pour,
      And rain stained clothes will be torn off
      And the near-empty pool
      Won't be anymore.
      And maybe what we'll have is a bacchanal,
      And there'll finally be some love for all
      Involved;
      But right now still stand the honeycomb walls,
      Just waiting for the rain to fall.
       

      3. Shira Levy, SAR, Best Catena Rondo

      Cradle to Grave

       

      From cradle to grave was the promise we made.

      Became a kindergarten sorority of blood brothers,

      children swearing a lifetime of friendship to each other.

      From cradle to grave was the promise we made.

       

      We were a kindergarten sorority of blood brothers;

      trust was a shared possession

      handed over without intention.

      In our kindergarten sorority of blood brothers,

       

      trust was a shared possession

      indiscriminately shared and broken,

      we watched delicate things shatter and open.

      Trust was a shared possession

       

      indiscriminately shared and broken.

      We hung our hearts up on our sleeves

      with a sort of innocence that leaves you

      indiscriminately shared and broken.

       

      We hung our hearts up on our sleeves;

      how sad it is to watch perfect things fall.

      Some things you mean when you say, but they mean nothing at all.

      We hung our hearts up on our sleeves;

       

      how sad it is to watch perfect things fall.

      Cradle to grave was the promise we made.

      Painted love behind our eye lids so it wouldn’t fade.

      How sad it is to watch perfect things fall.

       

      From cradle to grave was the promise we made.

      Became a kindergarten sorority of blood brothers,

      children swearing a lifetime of friendship to each other.

      From cradle to grave was the promise we made.

       

      4. Eli Sharvit, YUHSG, Best Performance

      How To Write a Love Poem in 10 Easy Steps:

      (A response to the online article)


      1. Start with a blank page

      Stare at your computer screen until the emptiness fills you. Everyone loves angst filled poetry. 

      You may consider leaving your doors unlocked, you can use it as a metaphor for the best way to 

      steal your heart. 

      2. Find the right words

      They may be buried deep under the piles of dirty laundry hidden in your closet, do not be afraid 

      to take the plunge. 

      3. Use imagery

      Sew similes to paint yourself a canvas of new reality, make sure to metaphorically compare her to 

      every thing she is to you.  Since she is your “everything”, this may take a while.

      4. Never use an eraser

      Show her that your love is permanent, use pen. Nay, use a sharpie, tattoo her name into your 

      paper, bear your skin in shreds of vulnerability.

      5. Relive every first

      Cry yourself a river to swim into the fluidity of memory. Tell yourself the way it really happened.

      6. Sketch out your relationship in patterns

      Write your poem the same way you plan your dates: predictable, always on time, and preferably 

      within the preconceived notions of the social norms. Build a sturdy rhyme scheme.

      7. Start keeping a swear jar 

      Because real poets curse like sailors,

      Feed it every time you think of  “If Onlys”, smash it every time you think of someone else.

      8. Find Someone to love

      Remember that gifted poets can fake feeling about anything, but when you write for her, you will 

      guard your words like diamonds in a vault, you will keep her safe, because there is nothing more 

      dangerous than an emotional train wreck. 

      9. Date a poet

      She will probably want to write you a love poem back, that’s why we all date poets!

      10. Publish a love poem 

      Because there is always another slam to write for.

      So when you are still coming up empty, start staring at your computer screen again.